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Fearless Feedback Model: From Caution to Constructive Growth

Focus
  • Identity & Belonging, Narrative & Meaning, Trust & Oversight
Category
  • Framework
Lens
  • Relational

Explanation

What it is

The Fearless Feedback Model is a structured framework for giving and receiving feedback in a way that promotes trust, psychological safety, and continuous improvement.

It reframes feedback from an act of judgment into an act of partnership, built on the principle that honesty and care can coexist when communication is intentional and balanced.

When to use it

  • When teams want to strengthen their feedback culture and normalise open dialogue.
  • When traditional performance reviews feel punitive or one-sided.
  • When individuals or leaders seek to encourage growth without damaging relationships.

Why it matters

  • Fearless feedback transforms the emotional dynamics of workplace conversations.
  • By beginning with affirmation (“what went well”) before exploring “even better if,” it reduces defensiveness and builds receptivity.
  • This approach accelerates learning, fosters mutual accountability, and creates a culture where feedback is anticipated rather than avoided — leading to higher trust, engagement, and sustained performance.

Reference

Definitions

Notes & caveats

  • The Fearless Feedback Model is not a formal proprietary system but an emergent synthesis of psychological safety and constructive communication research.
  • It differs from “Radical Candour” by placing greater emphasis on timing, emotional safety, and mutual growthrather than managerial authority.
  • Relation to Psychological Safety: Psychological safety establishes the conditions for openness; the Fearless Feedback Model provides the method for acting within those conditions. One creates permission, the other supplies practice.
  • Effectiveness depends on trust, context, and cultural norms — feedback delivered too early or without rapport can undermine its purpose.
  • When integrating into organisational systems, ensure feedback mechanisms are bidirectional to avoid perceptions of hierarchy or surveillance.

How To

Objective

To deliver feedback that strengthens trust, encourages reflection, and leads to tangible behavioural or performance improvement — without triggering defensiveness or shame.

Steps

  1. Prepare with intent
    Clarify your purpose for giving feedback. Ensure it’s about the other person’s growth, not your own frustration.
  2. Choose the right moment
    Give feedback promptly (within a week) but not in the heat of emotion. Choose a private, calm setting.
  3. Start with positives
    Begin by acknowledging what went well to build psychological safety and signal appreciation.
  4. Transition with “even better if”
    Frame improvement as opportunity, not failure: “It would be even better if…”
  5. Be specific and contextual
    Describe observable behaviours and their impact rather than making assumptions about intent.
  6. Invite reflection and dialogue
    Ask how the receiver perceived the situation; allow them to explain or add context.
  7. Co-create next steps
    Agree on one or two specific actions to trial or behaviours to adjust, keeping them measurable and realistic.
  8. Follow up
    Revisit after an appropriate period to check progress, acknowledge effort, and reinforce growth.

Tips

  • Keep your tone calm and curious, not corrective.
  • Use examples rather than generalisations (“In yesterday’s meeting…” instead of “You always…”).
  • Balance frequency and depth — small, frequent feedback is less intimidating than occasional deep dives.
  • Offer to receive feedback in return; reciprocity models trust.

Pitfalls

Delivering feedback when emotions are high

Take a pause — allow emotional cooling before discussion.

Overloading the receiver with multiple points

Focus on 1–2 actionable improvements.

Using vague praise (“Good job”) or abstract criticism (“Be more professional”)

Anchor comments in specific behaviours and results.

Treating feedback as one-directional

Create dialogue; let the receiver respond and suggest actions.

Ignoring power dynamics

Adjust tone and timing to the relationship — upward, peer, or downward feedback needs different framing.

Acceptance criteria

  • Both parties can summarise what was discussed and agreed.
  • The receiver feels supported, not judged.
  • At least one concrete improvement or experiment is captured in writing (e.g., notes, action tracker).
  • The next feedback moment is scheduled or naturally integrated into workflow.

Tutorial

Scenario

  • A design lead has noticed that one of her team members often dominates brainstorming sessions.
  • His ideas are strong, but others withdraw when he speaks.
  • The design lead wants to address this without discouraging his enthusiasm or damaging trust within the team.

Walkthrough

Decision point
Input/Output
Actions
Error handling
Closure

The design lead decides that this feedback should happen soon after the sprint review, when the team’s interactions are still fresh in mind but the environment is relaxed.

Input
Observation of recurring behaviour in team settings.

Output
A one-to-one conversation resulting in agreed behavioural shifts and renewed team balance.

  1. Preparation
    Design lead reflects on her intent — to help her team member enhance collaboration, not to suppress his confidence. She notes examples from two recent meetings.
  2. Opening (“What went well”)
    She begins by affirming his creativity and ability to bring clarity when the group is stuck. This signals appreciation and lowers defensiveness.
  3. Transition (“Even better if”)
    She introduces improvement gently:
    “It would be even better if we could make more space for quieter voices — your ideas set a great direction, and I’d love to see how others build on them.”
  4. Impact framing
    She explains that when he speaks early and decisively, others hold back, which limits idea diversity.
  5. Dialogue and reflection
    She asks how he perceives the group dynamic. He acknowledges his tendency to “jump in” when ideas are forming.
  6. Co-created next step
    They agree the team member will hold back for the first few minutes of the next ideation session to let others contribute first.
  7. Follow-up
    After the next sprint, the design lead thanks her team member for the change and shares that the team’s energy and participation noticeably improved.

If the team member had become defensive or dismissive, the design lead would have paused and reframed the conversation around shared goals (“We both want the team’s ideas to shine”) rather than pushing her point. This maintains psychological safety while keeping the dialogue open.

The conversation ends with mutual appreciation — the design lead thanks her team member for being open to feedback; he expresses gratitude for how she framed it. They agree to check in again at the next retrospective.

Result

Before
Uneven team participation and growing frustration among quieter members.

After
More balanced discussions, stronger team trust, and a noticeable uplift in collective idea quality.

Artefact Snapshot
A short follow-up note logged in the team’s Miro board under “Team Agreements – Collaboration Norms”.

Variations

  • If feedback is upward (to a manager): use questions instead of statements to reduce perceived challenge.
  • If feedback is between peers: emphasise mutual goals (“We both want to deliver great work”).
  • If remote or asynchronous: provide written feedback privately, using the same “went well / even better if” structure, then offer a call for discussion.