Warrior vs Worrier: The difference between hope and proof

A woman looks upward in a kitchen, her expression tense and controlled, holding back frustration she chooses not to voice.

When your inner world runs on possibility and the people you love live in the land of proof, even the simplest conversation can become a negotiation. This is the quiet tension between the warrior who dreams and the worrier who carries the weight — and how masking, momentum, and misalignment turn everyday moments into behavioural crossroads.

When Promises Outpace Resources, Dysfunction Wins

A weary middle-aged man sits in a crowded hospital waiting room, staring ahead in frustration with a large clock looming behind him.

Dysfunction doesn’t arrive fully formed — it seeps in when the translation from need to outcome breaks down. Whether it’s a product backlog or a hospital waiting list, the pattern is the same: promises outpace resources, and dysfunction takes hold.

Cognitive Debt in the UX Backlog

Why do some UX stories spark momentum while others vanish into the backlog? This piece explores the behavioural blind spots behind cognitive debt and how to write artefacts that move.

Strategic Thinking for an ADHD Brain

Strategy isn’t a luxury if you have ADHD — it’s a lifeline. This article explores how to build adaptive systems that expect drift, protect your energy, and turn re-entry into a feature, not a failure.